Issues You Can (Safely) Talk About at Thanksgiving
November 22, 2023
Even though our nation’s politics are becoming increasingly divisive, there are still a few subjects that have bipartisan consensus and may result in interesting discussions while passing the mashed potatoes. Eagle Forum Executive Director, Tabitha Walter, suggests two semi-political topics for those who tend toward civic discussions:
1) Daylight Saving Time
Nothing will cause a larger collective moan from your family members than bringing up the issue of daylight savings time. Moms know how brutal the transition to an hour later or earlier can be on your kids’ schedules and attitudes. Whether driving home from work, school, or extracurricular activities, all of us are experiencing darker-than-usual commutes.
The concept of Daylight Saving Time (DST) was conceived by Benjamin Franklin in 1784, but as a satirical way to conserve candlesticks! It’s no surprise that politicians would take a joke and make it a reality. DST became federal law in 1918, repealed seven months later, and then re-enacted in 1974. Contrary to popular belief, farmers are against Daylight Saving due to the loss of morning light to complete farm tasks. Businesses have seen less productivity from their employees and claims that DST saves energy are inconclusive at best. So why keep this unnecessary law on the books?
Every year, members of the U.S. House and Senate introduce bipartisan legislation to eliminate Daylight Saving Time. The Sunshine Protection Act (H.R. 1279/S. 582) passed the Senate last year, but never got a vote in the House.
2) Inflation
Whoever is providing any part of the Thanksgiving dinner will certainly feel the effects of inflation this year. While turkey prices have gone down slightly, those who serve ham will pay an all-time high of $4.56 per pound. Increases in the price of potatoes (14%), green beans (9%), and canned pumpkin (30%) may make traditional sides and desserts feel like luxuries.
Non-political Topics
When family members have strong political opinions, some of the most controversial topics that we are dealing with daily may need to be put aside for a peaceful meal. When all else fails, steer clear of politics and try these less controversial subjects.
Christmas
Everyone looks forward to the next holiday and Christmas activities abound. Ask your family members about their upcoming parties and activities, and begin making plans for your next gathering. With the impacts of inflation, this may be a good year to forego family Christmas presents and enjoy a white elephant gift exchange.
Other Topics
Sports
Children in the family (parents and grandparents love this topic!)
Favorite games, maybe even play one together
Black Friday shopping deals
Vacation plans or recent trips
Favorite shared memories or funny moments you’ve shared as a family
Blessings
Even with everything going on in our nation, we still have much to be thankful for. Share something positive you’ve experienced recently or take the opportunity to share your faith with someone who is hurting. Remind your family members that Thanksgiving is a day to take a break from the stresses we’re all under and take a moment to pray together. If the conversation around the dinner table begins to get heated, ask if we can agree to set aside serious discussions for a couple of hours or at least until after dessert. By then, hopefully the turkey will kick in and everyone will be ready for a nap.